tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5733542395194695896.comments2023-10-30T17:20:29.218+00:00HEART OF BALANCEheartofbalancehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18427269778599802068noreply@blogger.comBlogger175125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5733542395194695896.post-49437750874195973932023-10-24T15:01:53.301+00:002023-10-24T15:01:53.301+00:00I am sorry that we share the experience of the Dow...I am sorry that we share the experience of the Downeys. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5733542395194695896.post-49122866615493981072023-10-21T08:39:58.808+00:002023-10-21T08:39:58.808+00:00I'm very sorry to hear your story Southampton ...I'm very sorry to hear your story Southampton Girl. I also understand your deep rage and that's perfectly natural. If you need support there are lots of therapists and counsellors out there easily contactable via Google. Therapy was an important part of my journey to healing and I couldn't recommend it strongly enough. I hope and trust you have found happiness and fulfillment in your life at this point. If you need more details of support let me know via the blog. Thank you so much for your comment-it takes a lot of courage to do that.Tony Dnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5733542395194695896.post-23319026218103419722023-10-05T12:45:43.764+00:002023-10-05T12:45:43.764+00:00I'm very late to this site but am glad to hear...I'm very late to this site but am glad to hear that Brother Bernard was eventually caught and imprisoned. When I was 8 or 9, he would touch me inappropriately whenever he got the chance. He would visit my home to deliver eggs from his chickens, always with lots of sweets so we were kind of pleased to see him - now I know that as grooming of potential victims. He would always visit at a time of day when my mum would be in the kitchen cooking dinner and he'd be left alone with me and my siblings. A horrendous betrayal of my mum's trust - and he stayed for dinner! I knew that I wouldn't be believed if I said anything, and would likely have been punished. It helps me to now see him as Vincent Downey sex offender, rather than Brother Bernard the supposedly religious man regarded at the time as almost sacred. If there's a hell, I hope he's rotting there. Southampton Girlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5733542395194695896.post-53266084527551455062023-09-06T06:53:07.951+00:002023-09-06T06:53:07.951+00:00I was at Montfort College until the Summer of 76 w...I was at Montfort College until the Summer of 76 when I then left age 15. Wondering if anyone knows of a student probably 6th former then called "Mitch"? If he's about I'd rather like to get in touch. Anyhow, I don't really recognise any of the negativity referred to here and certainly knew nothing of any theft from a gun shop - Maybe I spent too much time with my head in the clouds! My there was mostly happy and the priests didn't really bother me (other than shooting me!) and I remember at weekends often going to Southampton to see the liners, something that in more recent years led me to take trips on the QM2. I did once 'sto-away' onto the Canberra and have a look around the ship, rather surprising achievement in hindsight. I remember one youngish Brother with dark curly hair who used to hang-out with us in our common-room at end of corridoor just before the large Hall, and he was friendly, but mostly the priests I found rather remote. I have no memory of my academic time there but I do have memories of how I lived and I guess it was a fairly decent time for me, even though I didn't then go on to become a priest. Dominicdominicnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5733542395194695896.post-26855693676971536062023-07-17T12:02:47.727+00:002023-07-17T12:02:47.727+00:00Never saw or heard of any abuse. Was there as stud...Never saw or heard of any abuse. Was there as student from 72-77. Heartfelt sorrow for anyone who did. Fr Flynn was a great guy. All best sirAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5733542395194695896.post-37863537039171425402023-07-17T09:20:34.886+00:002023-07-17T09:20:34.886+00:00How could we forget her
How could we forget her <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5733542395194695896.post-62806729752166783472023-07-17T09:18:32.966+00:002023-07-17T09:18:32.966+00:00J Harvey thank you for the information. Seems Er...J Harvey thank you for the information. Seems Erskine had his own demonsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5733542395194695896.post-91101190074612777622023-07-17T01:13:45.005+00:002023-07-17T01:13:45.005+00:00Indeed. Nightmares Indeed. Nightmares Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5733542395194695896.post-75856301768627022362023-07-17T01:04:16.994+00:002023-07-17T01:04:16.994+00:00Was there any charges pressed or formal complaints...Was there any charges pressed or formal complaints made to against father samuel ersmine Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5733542395194695896.post-64022067478168382282023-05-15T10:24:05.035+00:002023-05-15T10:24:05.035+00:00Dear ALL, I was with the SMMs from 1958 to 1973. ...Dear ALL, I was with the SMMs from 1958 to 1973. I went to MC, novitiate, Church Stretton and Heythrop College. I am so sorry that abuse happened at MC. I wasn't aware of such behaviour. Intimacy seemed taboo when I was there. I left the Order because of personal issues but have been back to MC but it was redeveloped into apartments. I think the only survivors of the English province are myself and Kieran Flynn.MikeLnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5733542395194695896.post-43000997833603604352022-10-01T12:44:17.185+00:002022-10-01T12:44:17.185+00:00Sister Eugiene was a fearsome woman tbhSister Eugiene was a fearsome woman tbhAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5733542395194695896.post-23152995873760885172022-09-13T09:53:50.969+00:002022-09-13T09:53:50.969+00:00Does any one remember the nuns that were aquatinte...Does any one remember the nuns that were aquatinted with the priests? Especially father Samuel Erskine!<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5733542395194695896.post-2487077438996463672022-07-28T00:54:08.908+00:002022-07-28T00:54:08.908+00:00Thanks for all the comments Abuse. I was at MC and...Thanks for all the comments Abuse. I was at MC and had been taught by all named . I even had a couple stay with my family during<br />ring summer hols. I never suffered any Sexual abuse or?<br />However I was abused I in old pigsty / Walking by an older pupil<br />I spent 5 years from 1967.<br />I had private Guitar lessons. Remedial lessons during first year for English in staff rooms.<br />I spent 3 month I'll & treated in spare staff bedroom.<br />MR ( ex Saturday Gardner either F2f Desmond (Superior).<br />Perhaps the student who restrained and abused me learnt his habits else where.<br />I never let my abuse longer on brain. My parents removed me when I told F2f Desmond and he my parents. I we still had Get Bed & Strs spend week hold even after I left .. They sometimes even stayed with my Unccle Fr Tommy in Duns Scotland. 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This comment on its own, fills me with distrust for the work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5733542395194695896.post-52706505837894352402019-09-22T00:43:41.495+00:002019-09-22T00:43:41.495+00:00Tony, I apologize for my original comment. I know ...Tony, I apologize for my original comment. I know you and I were never mates at Montfort college which was daft considering we had lived about 14 miles apart for most of our lives. Montfort college was a nightmare that no parent should have allowed their son's to dwell in. I challenged everything they said and made us do in my mind which I believe is what kept me sane! By today's standards many of those Priests would have been arrested and charged for assault (you may not remember the amount of times I received the strap on every Bookings Thursday night)! I do remember though...and a sincere thank you to you, one afternoon we were snooping around the third floor (where the Priests and Brothers rooms were) and whilst I was in one room Fr. Erskine caught you in another room. He demanded to know if you were alone and you refused to say I was there with you and he gave you the strap and you never told on me. That was a courageous 12 year old and I was so impressed at you for that! Years later I was a Jnr. Director for a multi national furniture company. One day whilst at the Preston Branch I ended up talking ro three lady customers. One stated that her son had been to a seminary but left and practically had a nervous breakdown as a result. In particular one Priest who she divulged as Sam Erskine was the major cause. I believe we at Montfort college who did survive did so with flying colours Tony. J. 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